In an era where relationships are evolving, Zack Wickham and Benji Quach are at the forefront of redefining modern love. As stars of Bravo’s hit reality show The Valley the couple is openly discussing their open relationship challenging traditional norms, and inspiring others to embrace honest communication.
The duo has been together for nearly three years, navigating the complexities of a long-distance relationship with Wickham based in West Hollywood and Quach in Toronto. Their journey is not just a personal story but a beacon of visibility and acceptance for the LGBTQ+ community.
Breaking down barriers on national television
Wickham and Quach’s decision to openly discuss their relationship dynamics on The Valley is a bold move. Wickham, in particular, is passionate about showcasing the diversity within queer relationships. “I’ve really enjoyed being able to show other sides of me that I didn’t get to show at first,” Wickham shared with Out. “It’s very important for visibility to show we’re here and we’re not going anywhere.”
Navigating an open relationship on television is no small feat. However, Wickham emphasizes the importance of open communication and mutual respect. “As long as you are openly communicative with each other and it’s hurting no one, you can set your own rules,” he stated. This philosophy resonates with many who are looking to break free from heteronormative societal expectations.
The power of open communication
Wickham believes that their relationship can serve as a model for others. “We don’t have to live in a heteronormative society,” he asserted. “I’m glad I can talk about and inspire others to have open communication with their partner.” This sentiment is particularly relevant in a community where discussions about sex and relationships are often candid and upfront.
The couple’s approach to their relationship is fluid and adaptable. “We at different times are open or not open,” Wickham explained. “The biggest challenge is the acceptance that there will be other people that will come into our relationship.” He stressed the importance of setting personal boundaries and respecting each other’s comfort levels. “If I want to know what’s going on, you have to tell me. If I don’t ask, I don’t want to know. You have to set up your own rules and it’ll develop on its own.”
Inspiring a new generation of relationships
Wickham encourages others to explore different types of relationships to find what works best for them. “Every single relationship is different,” he noted. This individualistic approach is a refreshing departure from the one-size-fits-all relationship models that have traditionally dominated society.
As The Valley continues to air on Wednesday nights, Wickham and Quach’s story is reaching a wide audience. Their openness is not just about personal expression but also about fostering a more inclusive and understanding society. With two years left in the show’s run, viewers can expect more insightful discussions and heartfelt moments from this dynamic duo.
For those inspired by their journey, following Zack Wickham on Instagram offers a glimpse into their lives and the ongoing evolution of their relationship.
