Lola Young returns to dating women after secret phone call at Rosalía’s O2 show

During Rosalía's London show, Lola Young shared a private discovery that prompted her to say she is returning to women; the moment came amid a period of recovery and career highs

At the heart of a theatrical set at London’s O2 Arena, Grammy winner Lola Young paused the spectacle for a personal revelation. Speaking to a packed crowd on May 5 during Rosalía‘s Lux Tour, Young described how a four-month relationship unraveled in a single, audible instant: her partner’s phone, still connected to a speaker, rang and she heard a call from his wife asking for nappies. That moment, Young said, changed everything for her romantically.

The exchange was more than gossip; it was a public crossroads. Young, who has been open about her sexuality before, framed the incident as the reason she is “back to women.” The anecdote unfolded inside a confessional segment of the show that mixed performance and candid talk, and it landed alongside a larger arc in which Young has navigated health struggles, a hiatus and sudden professional recognition.

The onstage confession and its fallout

During the Confesionario portion of Rosalía’s performance, Young recounted the sequence: after intimacy, her partner left to take a call and, unbeknownst to him, the call played through a Bluetooth speaker in the room. Through that loudspeaker she heard a voice — identified as his wife — asking for practical items for their children. The discovery prompted an immediate reaction; Young said she “lost the plot” and that the betrayal led her to reconsider dating men. The story resonated with the audience of about 40,000 people present for the first London date.

The episode also connected to how Young publicly identified herself online: she has said that she came out on TikTok in May 2026, responding candidly to a fan. That earlier moment of visibility, combined with the O2 confession, underscores how Young’s personal narrative has unfolded in public, shaped by social media and live performance alike. The onstage retelling was theatrical but rooted in an intimate truth.

Health, hiatus and a Grammy

Young’s O2 disclosure came against a backdrop of real-world recovery. After collapsing at the All Things Go festival in September of last year, she stepped away from touring for a five-month hiatus to “work on [herself],” entering a period that included treatment described publicly as rehab. Her break from the stage preceded a rapid career rebound: she returned to live performance and within days had won the Grammy for Best New Artist in February this year. Those events — health scare, time out, and industry recognition — feed into the way she talks about creative renewal.

In interviews following her comeback, Young has described renewed artistic purpose, saying she wants to compose songs that hit emotional marks for listeners. In a March cover story, she framed her goals simply: to make music that people cry, laugh and fall in love to. That ambition now sits alongside a more private determination to be selective about relationships.

Rosalía’s Lux Tour: context for the moment

The confession took place inside a larger, highly produced performance. Rosalía‘s Lux Tour is notable for its fusion of high-concept visuals and musical breadth, and the London run sold out the O2 Arena twice, drawing tens of thousands over two nights on May 5 and May 6. Rosalía staged the show with elaborate iconography — from ballet and religious imagery to operatic interludes — and she used guest moments, like inviting Young into a booth onstage, to blur lines between confession and theatre.

Stagecraft and symbolism

Rosalía’s show folded drama into pop: dancers, orchestral arrangements and visual tableaux shaped the narrative around songs from Lux. The confessional segment that featured Young was deliberately intimate amid the spectacle, an example of how modern arena shows can include storytelling beats that give fans a glimpse behind celebrity facades. The interaction linked Young’s personal story to Rosalía’s thematic focus on devotion, hypocrisy and transformation.

Audience reaction and coverage

Fans and critics responded quickly. Social feeds shared clips of Young’s revelation, and reviews noted how the moment humanised both performers amid a tour spectacle. The O2 shows have already been discussed as career milestones for Rosalía and touchstones for guest artists like Young, who used the platform to disclose a private betrayal and to explain a pivot in her romantic life.

What followed the confession was both consequence and opportunity: Young has regained public attention while continuing to process recent upheavals. Between a public coming out, a recovery period and a landmark Grammy, she now frames her next chapter with clearer priorities — and, as the O2 moment made plain, a new direction in love and in art.

Scritto da Giulia Lifestyle

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